Long distance realtionship advice?

okay so my boyfriend name is ryan. we been together since 8/11/09. and i really lke him and all. but umm he lives around 30-50 miles away. and my parents are too big of fans of him, not to mention they dont know were dating. i dont talk to him on the phone. only on myspace. and ive only meet him in real life once. so its really been a struggle. most times i dont even think of him as a boyfriend. let alone feel lke im in a relationship.. plz help? wat should i do.. break up.. or try to make things work??????? what you guyz think?? thanks soo much for any advice.. =]